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A Waffle


I remember being very OCD when I was little.  I actually measured my pink bedspread on each side to make sure it was even and used a wire hanger to smooth the wrinkles out.  I think I was 8.  Don’t even get me started about my dresser drawers–I had to fold my undergarments just so and heaven forbid my mom put anything in them if they weren’t folded to my specifications.  Like I said, I was OCD.  I slowly mellowed as I got older but it wasn’t until God gave me boys that I truly got over it.

Which brings me to today.

Today is my birthday.  I had breakfast in bed.  Meaning I found a half eaten waffle under the covers at the end of the 5 year old’s bed this morning, smuggled in from the night before.  Along with a phone book (I didn’t even know we still had a phone book?!), 3 rubber bands, a cheese stick wrapper, a pen, and a sealed envelope which I think contains my birthday list that he painstakingly rewrote twice.  I then went to the upper bunk where my 7 year old sleeps.  No waffle.  But he did have one straw, a sleep mask which belongs to me, a hand full of legos, and a pamphlet on how to play a Tin Penny Whistle from Colonial Williamsburg.

Now if you didn’t know me based upon that last paragraph you would swear we were messy slobs.  Can I just tell you that not 24 hours earlier our house had been scrubbed clean from top to bottom and all the sheets washed and changed?

Let’s get back to today.  I have to believe that there is some significance to the fact that my birthday falls the day after Good Friday and the day before Easter.  The day after an ending so that there can be a new beginning.  But, wait, there is more…I’m 41 today.  I just completed 40 years.  A 40 something time period, whether days, months or years is always a period of testing, trial or probation and ends with a period of restoration, or renewal.  Think Noah and rain for 40 days and 40 nights, or Moses on the mountain…40 days, Israelites wandering…40 years, Jesus in the wilderness…40 days.

So today is a giant brand new renewal.  God’s been working on me in big and small ways.  The waffle is a small way but if 20 years ago I had found a half eaten linty waffle I would have changed the sheets and ranted.  Today I contemplated eating it.




  1. You are so dear. This is so you. I love how God is and has transformed your life over the past 40 years. He will continue to do so when we allow Him in. When we can see past the waffles in bed and consider our children fed no matter how they get it.
    I loved meeting you at Blissdom. A forever friend I am thinking and a lifelong pal.
    Happy Happy Happy day to you. Heres to the next 40.

  2. Jan says

    So elegantly said. Your past 40 years have brought many peaks and valleys and yet here you are letting everyone know that you are a survivor. “The more we saturate our minds with the Word of God, the more we will be governed by what is true.” We are proud of you and all of your accomplishments. Happy Birthday Jen!!

  3. Tracy says

    Happy Birthday my sweet friend- linty waffles aren’t so bad:). You’ve come a long way!

  4. Jackie Stefan says

    I love reading your posts about your life. Did you ever consider getting your stuff published? Wow — you can really paint a picture with words! Happy 4 0…!!

  5. Happy Birthday! I have a handful of months before I turn 41 as well… looks like I’m in gooood company… Also, and the fact that you ate a leftover bed waffle, makes me think you are even more rad than I already figured you might be 😉

    • Jen says

      You’re funny. I just needed a little coffee to go with that waffle;) Thanks for checking me out!

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